Written in English, for clinicians

Clinical compendia on ADHD, trauma and the consulting room

I am an Italian psychologist and psychotherapist. Most of my writing is in Italian; these volumes are not translations but standalone English texts, written for colleagues who work in English.

They share one commitment, which is that the clinical question is not whether ADHD exists, but what we do in the room with a person who arrives with that word already written on their forehead.

The compendia

Three volumes, written for the room

Short, dense, clinical. Rather than manuals or literature reviews, each one takes a question we actually meet in session and stays with it long enough to be useful on Monday morning. All digital, so you download them the moment you buy.

Cover of «ADHD and Relational Trauma: A Psychodynamic Reading», a clinical compendium for psychotherapists
PDF + EPUB 49 pages

ADHD and Relational Trauma

The debate asks whether adult ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition or the misrecognised trace of early adversity. This volume refuses the either/or and reads attentional dysregulation as a relational history too, without swapping one label for another.

€18.30

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Cover of «Adult ADHD: A Psychodynamic View», a clinical compendium for psychotherapists
PDF 19 pages

Adult ADHD: A Psychodynamic View

For clinicians who meet adults already diagnosed, or arriving at the diagnosis on their own, and are not sure what to do with it. The strengths-based turn breaks the grammar of deficit, but does not move the plane of the discussion.

€13.42

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Cover of «The Space That Answers Back», a clinical compendium on AI and psychotherapy
PDF + EPUB 37 pages

The Space That Answers Back

AI and psychotherapy, and structural sycophancy, meaning why a model optimised not to displease will, by construction, tend to agree, and why meeting something that does not agree with you is a large part of what our work is.

€18.30

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Cover of «The Third Presence in the Room: A Clinical and Ethical Guide to Psychotherapy in the Age of Artificial Intelligence»

The book · 181 pages

The Third Presence in the Room

A clinical and ethical guide to psychotherapy in the age of artificial intelligence. Your patient has often already spoken, since by the time she reaches your office, the hardest thing she had to say has been said to something that is not a person.

This is not a book about technology. It is a book about clinical work in a moment that changed underneath us, written for licensed clinicians, by a psychodynamic psychotherapist.

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Also in the shop

Worksheets and clinical tools

Printable instruments for session work with adults, adolescents and children, built on the same premise as the compendia, with no norms, no scoring and no cut-offs. They are there to open a conversation, not to close one.

«Before You Call It Resistance», a one-page clinical field note for therapists

Before You Call It Resistance

A one-page field note: three questions to sit with before the label gets written.

€2.32

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Therapy workbook on holidays and family boundaries, printable psychodynamic worksheets

Holidays and Family Boundaries

A 28-page workbook, twenty worksheets in four movements, for the room we never see: the family dining table.

€24.28

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«The Distance Map», an attachment and relationship mapping tool for therapists

The Distance Map

Asking who matters produces a list. Asking a patient to place people at a distance produces a picture they have to explain to themselves.

€18.18

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AI in therapy: a clinical observation grid for therapists, printable session note PDF

AI in Therapy: Observation Grid

An eight-part grid for organising your own attention when a patient uses AI between sessions. Not a questionnaire.

€18.18

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«The Week in Four Lines», a between-session tracker worksheet for therapists

The Week in Four Lines

Between-session tracking that asks for four marks a day and produces a shape, instead of a table nobody learns from.

€16.96

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Therapy worksheets for the first session after a break, reconnection tools for therapists

The Return After a Break

The first session back is not a resumption, it is a reunion, and almost none of what it stirs up announces itself.

€18.18

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Symptom psychoeducation handouts for adults, trauma-informed printable therapy resources

What a Symptom Is For

Psychoeducation that explains what a symptom is for, and not only what it is. The omission is never neutral.

€16.96

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Visual session check-in worksheet with therapist and client scales

Visual Session Check-In

Scales with two poles and no numbers. A number out of ten is the least informative thing a person can say about themselves.

€9.64

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Adolescent therapy session openers, teen counseling tools printable PDF

Adolescent Session Openers

The opening is the session's most diagnostic stretch, and it is usually wasted on «how was your week?».

€16.96

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September anxiety pack for children aged 9 to 12, parent psychoeducation PDF

September Anxiety, ages 9-12

The anxiety is doing something. Worth finding out what, before trying to remove it. Two halves: for the child, and for the parents.

€18.18

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Emotion regulation worksheets for children aged 6 to 8, play therapy printable PDF

Emotion Regulation, ages 6-8

A child of six has no word for most of what happens in them. Every sheet begins in the body, and only then moves toward language.

€15.74

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The Consulting Room

The full shop, with everything above and whatever has been added since: instant PDF and EPUB downloads for therapists. Italian editions stay on Gumroad.

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The shop also has its own website, with every guide described in full: flanor90.github.io/TheConsultingRoom.

Who writes them

I read Clinical Psychology at Sapienza University of Rome and have been a licensed psychologist since 2018. In 2022 I completed the four-year specialisation in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at SPS in Rome, training in Demand Analysis, an approach that is not satisfied with the symptom, but asks what the request for help means inside the history and the contexts of the person who brings it.

Alongside clinical practice I have worked on the organisational side, with the distress that comes from work and the organisations that produce it. That double vantage point runs through everything I write, because suffering never lives in a vacuum but inside relationships, contexts and cultures.

I see clients online and in person in Itri, near Rome, and I work in Italian, English and Spanish.

Get in touch

For clinical supervision, a first consultation, or anything about the compendia, writing to me is the fastest route. The rest of the site is in Italian, but you can switch language from the menu at the top.

Questions

Are the compendia written for clinicians or for patients?

For clinicians. They assume you already sit with patients and take for granted the vocabulary of the consulting room. Two of them are also readable by an informed non-specialist, but the address is professional throughout.

What format are they, and how are they delivered?

PDF, and PDF plus EPUB for the longer two. Delivery is an instant download from Etsy the moment you buy, so nothing is shipped and nothing arrives later by email.

Are these translations of your Italian work?

No. They are standalone English texts, written for colleagues who work in English. The Italian editions cover different ground and live on Gumroad.

Do you offer clinical supervision in English?

Yes, online, individually or in small groups. I work in Italian, English and Spanish. Writing to me is the fastest way to see whether it makes sense for the case or the team you have in mind.